Who is your favorite Mr. Knightley? That’s a question I posed to the readers of my own modest blog (shannonwinslow.com) a year and a half ago, when I was trying to decide who to feature on my then-upcoming novel Mr. Knightley in His Own Words, presenting the question in the form of a pageant to compare the various actors’ portrayals. My book has since published and is doing very well. (In fact, it was recently named a Best Read of 2024 at Austenesque Reviews!) The surprising thing is that the pageant post is ALSO doing very well. In fact, it consistently receives more views than any other on my blog! Since people apparently find it quite entertaining, I thought I’d share it to a wider audience here. I hope you enjoy it!
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… In the meantime, though, I need to start thinking about the cover. As you probably know, the previous two […in His Own Words] books featured an artist’s rendition of the title character as depicted in one of the film adaptations. Since I had a clear favorite for both Darcy (Colin Firth) and Colonel Brandon (Alan Rickman), there was no dilemma. But it’s different for Mr. Knightley. Just as I like all 4 movie versions of Emma, for different reasons, I like things about all 4 leading men. So, who do I put on the cover? Let the contest begin!

I don’t know about you, but I grew up watching the Miss America Pageant. Let’s not debate what’s right or wrong with that “scholarship program.” I simply want to borrow the format for evaluating our contestants in the Mr. Knightley Pageant: Mark Strong, Jeremy Northam, Jonny Lee Miller, and Johnny Flynn.
Although the rules changed over the years, for the most part, the Miss America contestants were evaluated based on the evening gown competition, swimsuit competition, a show of talent, and an interview segment. Unfortunately, we’re going to have to modify things somewhat. For example, sorry, ladies, no swimsuit pictures available (although there was that “birthday suit” shot of Johnny Flynn, hmm). Plus, I threw in a few of my own criteria. You can do the same when it’s your turn.
Let’s start with Mark Strong, Mr. Knightley in A&E’s Emma 1996, starring opposite Kate Beckinsale. I think Mark Strong is a good looking guy, and he gets extra points from me for being tall (6’2”), which gives him a potential advantage in the eveningwear competition – something the costumers didn’t take full advantage of, imo. I also enjoy his speaking voice, so he scores well in the interview too. As for talent, I’m sure he has some that the film didn’t give him the opportunity to showcase.
Strong loses a couple of beauty points for his prematurely receding hairline (he was only 33, the youngest of the four when he played the role!), and he’ll never win Miss… I mean Mr. Congeniality, for he seems always to be angry and yelling, especially at Emma. Maybe that’s why he’s best known for his bad-guy roles, where yelling is more appropriate. (I have a villain role in the book he’d be perfect for!). Also, sadly, no detectable chemistry with his leading lady.
Next up is Jeremy Northam, Mr. Knightley in Miramax’s Emma 1996, playing opposite Gwyneth Paltrow. I might just as well come straight out and say it. In a contest of pure beauty, Jeremy Northam wins hands down. He’s the most handsome of the four, imo, and just as tall as Mark Strong too (6’2″), although you may not have hardly noticed when he’s standing next to his 5’9″ leading lady. His wardrobe is top notch, and he looks smashing in it, too. But I know we should be judging on more than just outward beauty, right? For talent, I have him down for graceful dancing plus archery. And he has a nice voice, too.
But it’s not all good news for Mr. Northam. He loses a point or two for poor posture, because he tends to slouch instead of always sitting correctly upright. And I had no choice but to penalize him for the way he manhandles Emma during his reproof of her at Box Hill. A true gentleman would never grab a lady’s arm and jerk her around like that! Tsk tsk.
That brings us to the next candidate, chronologically, Jonny Lee Miller, who starred as Knightley in the BBC’s 2009 Emma mini-series opposite Ramola Garai. Even though his production is considerably longer than the others, I’ve been having the most trouble evaluating his performance. He is easy enough on the eyes, but not tall (5’10”). I watched closely for anything I could call a display of talent but found nothing, only dancing that looked tentative at best. His voice is pleasant but unremarkable.
Although I couldn’t name any category in which he particularly excelled the others, neither did I find any particular faults (except for that not-tall thing). He has kind of an X-factor going for him, I think. And he’s the one I most believe as Emma’s close, life-long friend – friends that can say whatever they want to each other. And yet I don’t have any trouble seeing why Emma falls in love with him.
Finally, we have Johnny Flynn, Mr. Knightley of the off-beat Focus 2020 production of Emma, co-starring Anya Taylor-Joy (read my review of the film here). Not particularly handsome and, sadly, not tall either (just shy of 5’10”). He seems to be athletic – runs, vaults a stone wall. But musical talent is where he really shows off. He sings and plays the violin during the film, and he wrote and sings the song that plays over the closing credits: My Queen Bee. (Take a minute to check out a much younger Flynn singing another of his original songs on YouTube.) Flynn has great on-screen chemistry with his Emma too – during their dance and that one other scene at the end. *sigh* Does that qualify as talent, too?
Although Flynn gives a surprisingly endearing portrayal of Knightley, I had to subtract some points for undignified behavior – frequently disheveled, running in public. In a pageant – a contest for the most gentlemanly gentleman – posture and decorum must be maintained at all times!
So where does that leave us? Do we have a winner? According to my score card, Johnny Flynn easily takes the Talent trophy. Jeremy Northam wins the Eveningwear Competition for his handsomeness and wardrobe. I’m going to give the nod to Mark Strong for the Interview, because I’d be happy to listen to his voice for a long time (provided he’s not yelling). But what about Jonny Lee Miller? He’s got to be my Mr. Congeniality, because he’s the guy we all want as our friend if we can’t have him as our lover. Other than winning the crown itself, that’s the most coveted title of all, at least I think that’s what they used to claim on Miss America.
That’s just my opinion, though, and I still don’t have a clear winner to feature on the book cover. To decide, I need to hear from the rest of the distinguished panel of judges. That’s you! Leave me a comment below for who you think should get the cover and why. Who is your Mr. Knightley?
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Well, there you have it. The original votes came back split 50/50 between Jeremy Northam and Jonny Lee Miller, with Mark Strong solidly in third. So my quest for the winner of the cover continued on (read more here and here, if you’re interested in the lengths I went to!). As you can see, Jeremy Northam ultimately won. Do you think I made the right decision? How would you have judged The Mr. Knightley Pageant? Who is your favorite Mr. Knightley?
Mr. Knightley in His Own Words was recently named the Austenesque Reviews Favorite “Alternate POV” novel of 2024! (that post and a link to Meredith’s full review), Here’s the blurb:
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Mr. George Knightley. According to Emma Woodhouse, you won’t see one in a hundred who is so clearly the gentleman. Respected by all, he’s kind, unpretentious, and scrupulously honest, with an air so remarkably good that it’s unfair to compare other men to him. We also know he’s been his “own master” from a young age. But Jane Austen tells us little more.
What were his early years like, and how did he lose his parents? A man in his mid-thirties, he must have had at least one romance along the way. Did it end badly? Is that why he’s never married? When and how did his relationship with Emma shift from friendship to love? And what can explain his incredible forbearance towards the eccentric Mr. Woodhouse? Now, Mr. Knightley reveals these answers and more in His Own Words.
This is not a variation from but a supplement to the original story of Emma, chronicled in the hero’s point of view. Two-thirds completely new material, it features key events in Mr. Knightley’s past – events that still haunt him and yet have shaped who he’s become, the superior man Emma can’t help falling in love with.
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I can see why this post has been doing so well – it’s hilarious! 🤣
Thanks so much for sharing and making me smile!
As for your musings on their outward beauty: I absolutely agree!
I don’t know why, but for me Mr. Knightley must have dark hair… I can’t really accept the blonde ones.
However, I think I remember that Austen wrote he was not particularly handsome.
So perhaps Jeremy Northam is too good-looking to be Mr. Knightley. He looks more like a Mr. Darcy to me.
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I’m delighted I could bring a smile to your face, Sabrina! Thanks for reading. 🙂
My vote is for Jeremy Northam, when I close my eye to picture Mr. Knightley he is who I see
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I guess I got it right, then! Thanks for reading and commenting, Triss.
Mark Strong is my favorite Knightley. Jeremy Northam is that last on the list. When I first read Emma, I had no idea who she would end up with (unlike, for example, Lizzy Bennet). Jeremy Northam was the quintessential Romantic Lead so I felt he was just too too obvious (and Paltrow was not sharp enough). Strong was handsome but not pretty (receding hairline and all), grumpy, and sweet and Beckinsale was perfect. You left out John Carson from the 1970s, but I could never take him seriously as anything but the Mad Hatter.
Johnny Lee Miller’s humor and exasperation were spot on but I’m less fond of that version as I found Garai just too likeable as Emma. Johnny Flynn was quite good but showing such early interest in Emma so “heatedly” knocks him out of the running entirely. I did love his singing duet with Jane Fairfax.
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To be honest, Karen, I was surprised how much support Mark Strong received in my poll, so you are far from alone! I really do appreciate all 4 for different reasons. (I didn’t go back as far as 1970.)They all contributed something worthwhile to the roll, imo, which was exactly my problem in choosing, especially when receiving no consensus from readers. Thanks for your comments!
My vote is for Johnny Flynn, I would dance with him all night and day plus singing love songs to me…. But Jeremy Northam comes in a close second, can’t pass up his good looks. I can see how this is a very tough one to call. Even though Pride and Prejudice and ODC will always be my favorite, Emma has always been my second go to and I always wondered why there isn’t more JAFF with it. I might write one of my own but sadly I fear I lack the talent so I will just read instead!
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The simple answer is that if Emma JAFF sold as well as P&P, more people would be writing it. I write what I want, and I always had the goal of writing at least one novel related to each of Austen’s six. But I can’t help wishing more readers would expand their horizons a bit, going beyond ODC books at least occasionally. 🙂 Thanks for your comments, Jennifer!
My favorite Knightly is Paul Rudd, as in Clueless. But of those four, I’d go with Jeremy Northam.
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I like Paul Rudd too, Kelley! I didn’t consider him for the cover, though, since the book is a period piece.
Hah! Love this post, Shannon, and I especially love your amazing drawing of the Jeremy Northam Mr. Knightley for the cover of your wonderful book. Because Northam is the first Knightley I saw in a film, he always feels like Knightley to me, but I really did enjoy both Jonny Lee Miller and Johnny Flynn’s performances — very different takes on Knightley, I think, but each captures something important about that character, I think. Thanks for this post, Shannon!
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I’m glad you found it entertaining, Christina, and that you enjoyed the cover/book too! JN was my first Knightley and so, like you, probably my sentimental favorite. But I did appreciate the others as well, so it was a tough choice. I wish their had been a way to offer the book where people could choose which coverboy they preferred. Haha!
I’m not sure why height is an important decision in rating the actors. I’ve read Emma several times & no reference to height is mentioned. We do know in P&P that Mrs. B refers to Darcy as Mr. Bingley’s tall friend.
I know many people don’t like Ms. Patrow as Emma, but I thought she played the self-absorbed Emma well.
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The “being tall” thing was a joke. (You’re right that JA doesn’t say Knightley is tall.) Just my personal preference. 😉 As I said in the beginning of the piece, “I threw in a few of my own criteria. You can do the same when it’s your turn.” Thanks for reading and commenting, Jean Marie!
So much to comment on, Shannon! I once read a review that said Mark Strong was the only actor in that film who had to wear a hairpiece. To my mind, he just yells at our dear Emma too much, so he could never be my Mr. Knightley. Jonny Lee Miller is too identified in my mind as a modern-day Sherlock Holmes due to that TV series, and Johnny Flynn just isn’t suave enough for me. (And as someone else mentioned, he’s a blonde. As a blonde myself, I prefer brunettes also.) So Jeremy Northam HAS to be my Knightley. Although you dislike his “manhandling” of Emma at Box Hill, it was that very scene that endeared him to me. He enlarged on Austen’s dialogue and really made me feel that he was hurt by Emma’s rudeness to Miss Bates. I think that shows so well in the movie because Emma feels it, too, and knows that she let him down. Be still my heart, Jeremy Northam will always be my Knightley, just as Colin Firth will always be my Darcy.
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Thanks for you comments, Susan, and I’m glad you approve of Jeremy N. landing the cover! I agree that the Box Hill scene is excellent in showing his character and his concern, not only for Miss Bates but for Emma. I have no quibble with what he says to her – she needed to hear it – only his physically grabbing her arm and jerking her around. (Badly done, Mr. Knightley!)
Jeremy Northam!!!!!
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You got it, Kimberly!
Jeremy. Is there really any question?
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Haha! As you can see from the cover of the published novel, JN did win out in the end. Honestly, that’s whose image I had in mind when I was writing the book, and you can feel free to do the same when you read it!
Oh, I am completely on board with Mr. Northam being the quintessential Mr. Knightly! For me, his is the most romantic and mature personage of the “contestants”. I do decidedly have a soft spot for Jonny Lee Miller, but as Mr. Knightly, he is unable to unseat Mr. Northam from the throne!
Love your stories, by the way!!!
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Yay! I’m glad you approve the cover, Terry. Hope you’ll enjoy the book too!