Jane Confides How She Fell in Love with Mr. Bingley

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What better way to start the year than to focus on one of Jane Austen’s most beloved characters. Join Austen Variations as we spend January looking into the lovely Jane Bennet.


 

When the theme for this month was announced, I thought the perfect piece for me to share would be this scene from my most recent novel, Miss Georgiana Darcy of Pemberley, which is in turn an expansion on a passage you may have read in my earlier, parallel work The Darcys of Pemberley. It takes place at Pemberley about a year after the close of P&P, and it’s told from Georgiana’s point of view. I hope you enjoy it!



 

J&E1With Mr. Bingley away to supervise the move, Jane became Elizabeth’s constant companion. I knew they had been the closest of sisters all their lives. And now, with these few weeks again under the same roof… Well, I could see it was a special treat for them both. I did not wish to interfere, so I was sure to make excuses for allowing them plenty of time to themselves.

I do not mean to say that my company was ever shunned by them. On the contrary, the sisters made me feel very welcome in their intimate society, and I am convinced they were entirely sincere in their desire to include me at these times. Perhaps they both missed the presence of their younger siblings and I thereby helped to fill a void for them. They certainly did for me. Elizabeth was already become the sister I never had, and in Jane I found another.

J&E2Since they were both older and had gone ahead of me in many of life’s important steps, they were in the position to tell me much of interest – the sort of information my mother would undoubtedly have supplied me, had she lived. I wanted to know a woman’s place in marriage. What were her duties, responsibilities, her pleasures and vexations? What was necessary to keep a husband happy and a home running smoothly? Jane and Elizabeth had experience in these matters whereas I had none.

J&E5However, between my shyness in asking straightforward questions and Jane’s particular modesty in speaking on delicate topics, my progress toward discovering these secret mysteries was slow. Enlightenment came bit by bit, more by my diligently gleaning what was incidentally dropped than by a calculated harvest of information all at once.

So I accumulated knowledge over time, primarily just by keeping my ears and eyes open. But one day, when the three of us were sitting quietly together over our needlework, I did find courage enough to ask Jane to tell me how she and Mr. Bingley fell in love.

“Oh, my,” she said in answer, demurely laying a hand to the side of her face. “Can you really be interested?”

“Very much so, but perhaps you had rather not.”

“No. Although I would not care to talk about it to just anybody, it is the kind of thing sisters share, is it not?”

Elizabeth nodded. “Exactly, and it is a story well worth telling, Jane, especially in light of the happy way it has turned out.”

“As you wish, then,” Jane agreed. “Yet, as for falling in love, it will be a very short story on my side, for I believe I was fairly smitten the first night I saw Mr. Bingley, at that ball in Meryton.”

“It was the same for him, Jane, and you know it,” Elizabeth added. Then she turned to me. “Mr. Bingley thought Jane the most beautiful, most angelic creature he had ever come across. He has told me so himself. And of course, I quite agree with him.”

“Now, Lizzy, you mustn’t say such things,” returned Jane. “Sometimes I think you take delight in embarrassing me.”

“I speak only the truth, but I will let you tell it your own way.”

“Yes, please,” I said to further encourage her.

Mr B“Very well, Georgiana. As I was saying, I liked Mr. Bingley at once. He was exactly my idea of what a young gentleman should be – not only handsome, but also very good, amiable, and well mannered. He sets everybody at their ease from the first moment. We danced four dances together that night, and he paid me the further compliment of introducing me to his sisters. Then, for as long as he remained at Netherfield, we saw each other frequently and spent as much time in each other’s company as possible. Our familiarity naturally increased and, from his continued attentions, I began to hope – and other people began to expect – that he would soon make me an offer. Instead, he and all his party, which included your brother, went away to London. I was told he had no definite plan of ever returning to Hertfordshire.

“All seemed at an end, and although I endeavored to overcome my low spirits at the likelihood of never seeing Mr. Bingley again, I’m afraid I really was quite miserable. As it turns out, he was as well. Nevertheless, we were kept apart for months by…” Here Jane glanced at Lizzy. “Well, that hardly matters now. In any case, looking back, I see it as a time of testing. No matter how painful the separation, it served to prove the strength of our devotion. Neither of us could forget the other, you see. So, when we next met, there could no longer be any doubt of our mutual attachment. Mr. Bingley quickly came to the point, and we were married shortly thereafter. Now here we are as you see us these many months later.”

Jane and Mr BI sighed. “Beautiful,” I said, thoroughly captured by Jane’s story and the embellishments added by my own imagination. “If I could but marry for love, as you did, and live always near Pemberley, I believe I should be truly happy.”

“That sounds lovely, dear,” said Elizabeth. “Do you have anyone in mind to play the role of your husband in this charming picture of connubial bliss? Your brother has taken great pains to see to it that you are introduced to suitable young men. Has one of them caught your fancy?”

“Oh, no! Well… not really,” I stammered. None of the ‘suitable young men’ I had been introduced to interested me in the least. I had in mind a less suitable, somewhat older man instead when I continued. “That is to say, there is someone I admire very much, but it would be impossible.”

“Do not despair, Georgiana. The most surprising things do occur,” Jane encouraged. “Elizabeth and I are examples of that. You know our histories; what seemed out of the question once, ultimately came to pass.”

“Yes, and in the meantime, try to keep open to other possibilities,” Elizabeth advised, pressing my hand. “Your future happiness may not lie where you think.”



Share your thoughts. Did Jane’s temporary separation from Mr. Bingley, though painful, serve to strengthen their attachment in the end? I’ve always seen a similarity between Jane’s and Georgiana’s temperaments. Do you agree that they are much alike? Wouldn’t you like to have been one of this group of dear sisters?

 

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  1. I wonder if Jane and Bingley would have viewed their meeting after such a long separation as a second chance that they had better not squander. How about immediate banns and a wedding at the end of a fortnight. If I was Bingley, I might have seriously thought about Gretna Green. And, yes, it would have been fun to sit in on any of these conversations. Lizzy would have livened up the gathering. Nice, sweet short story.

    1. Good way to look at it, Gianna – a second chance not to be squandered! And, according to the timeline given in P&P, they did not have long to wait. They were engaged at the end of September and married before Christmas alongside Darcy and Elizabeth. Thanks for your comments!

    • Michelle Hall on January 11, 2016 at 4:08 am
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    A lovely excerpt and I must read this book. I agree I think Jane and Georgina’s temperaments do suit one another and then you have Lizzy to liven things up. Lovely way to start my Monday morning. Thank you

    1. Exactly, Michelle. Lizzy adds the spark. 🙂

    • Deborah on January 11, 2016 at 5:20 am
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    Sweet except. Thank you so much for sharing. I do believe that Jane and Georgiana have similar personalities….quiet and sweet, seeing the good in everyone to the exclusion of their vices. A nice way o start the morning.

    1. So glad you enjoyed it, Deborah!

  2. I have always thought that Jane and Darcy were similar in how they keep their feelings hidden to those who do not know them well. For those who do know them well, they can be read like an open book.

    I think description wise that Jane and Georgiana look very similar. Their personalities were similar as well to offset the liveliness of Lizzy.

    1. Thanks for your comments, Patty. Good to hear from you!

    • Stephanie L on January 11, 2016 at 9:26 am
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    The thing about Jane and Elizabeth (and Elinor and Marianne actually) that always draws me is that I have a younger most beloved sister and the opportunity to sit and chit chat with her now is the sweetest gift. I can appreciate this scene and would have loved to be a part of it!

    1. I have a younger sister too, Stephanie. Like J&E and E&M, we are quite different and yet she is my best friend. As you say, time spent together is sweet.

    • Sheila L. M. on January 11, 2016 at 11:49 am
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    I enjoyed this just as much upon the second reading as when I read it in the book. I have a younger sister and we are best friends NOW. But growing up is a different story.

    Yes, Jane and Georgiana have many similar personality traits.

    1. Thanks for reading – BOTH places, Sheila. Yes, I agree that our relationships to our siblings are often very different when we grow up! When I was young, I most of the time considered my kid sister a pest. Now she’s my best friend.

    • rae on January 11, 2016 at 12:22 pm
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    I never had a sister – only a brother. I always wished for the kind of sisterly love and devotion of Jane and Lizzy and so when I had two daughters 27 months apart I was longing to see this closer sister relationship develop between the two of them. No luck. All through their childhood and teen years, and even into college, the older one wanted not much to do with the younger one who wanted her sister’s love and acknowledgment so badly. It so frustrated me.

    But now both are in their 30’s and have finally found that sisterly love and openness to confide in one another that they couldn’t accept when younger. Better late than never and it warms my heart to know that they turn to each other and confide in each other and take care of each other so well.

    1. So glad your girls finally got there, Rae!
      I have two sons, 4 years apart. They did play together as kids (Legos bridge across all gaps), but the older didn’t always gracefully accept the younger’s hero worship and wanting to spend time with him. I remember having a talk with him, telling him he should be kinder to his brother, that whether he knew it or not, that was his best friend. And so they are today.

    • Carol on January 11, 2016 at 12:45 pm
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    What an enjoyable excerpt. Loved that the forever close sisters included Georgiana in the sisterly talks. The older gentleman, I hope, is Colonel Fitzwilliam. She’s never been exposed to many older gentleman and most would not be acceptable to Darcy. My sister and I did not have Elizabeth and Jane’s affection until we were older and had children. Too bad we were not close during our younger years.

    1. It can feel like wasted years if you don’t establish that warm connection until later.

      As for the “older gentleman” Georgiana mentions above, no spoilers here! I hope you’ll find out by reading the book(s). The Darcys of Pemberley and Miss Georgiana Darcy of Pemberley go hand in hand, running parallel. TDOP is more D&E from E’s POV. The other covers the same timeline, but fills in the blanks from Georgiana’s perspective, including her courtship story.

  3. A lovely story–thank you!! 😀

    Yes, I definitely see a similarity of temperament between Jane and Georgiana; both of them need Elizabeth to keep them amused and lively. 😉

    Have a wonderful week!

    Warmly,
    Susanne 🙂

    1. Thanks for commenting, Susanne!

    • sharon on January 11, 2016 at 2:49 pm
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    i beliee that this scene that you wrote is something that lizzy and jane would have had conversations about with darcys sister and she is a lot like jane genuinely sweet tempered and mild well done great scene loved it sharon

    1. Glad you enjoyed it, Sharon, and that it rang true for you!

    • Carole in Canada on January 11, 2016 at 4:28 pm
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    Yes, enjoyed this scene in the book. Though they do seem similar, I think Jane is more reserved than shy and Georgiana needed more confidence…but we know why that was! I have two older sisters who were very close growing up. That has changed somewhat as we got married and had families. Now I find I am very close to my older sister who is 3 hours away and we see each other regularly when she is not in Florida for the winter! The middle sister is in California and we keep in touch regularly but it is not the same.

    1. Good insight, Carole. You’re right. There’s a difference between shyness and reserve.

      Too bad neither of your sisters lives closer, but at least we have better ways of keeping in touch across a distance than they did in JA’s day. Lucky for us that she wrote so many letters to her sister when they were apart. A lot of what we know about her is from those preserved letters to Cassandra.

    • Kathy on January 12, 2016 at 1:11 am
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    Really lovely excerpt. I wonder if Jane and Bingley’s separation served to make them more fiercely devoted to each other, when they realized that they were being kept apart against their wishes. I would think they would realize that they should not let anyone else stand in the way of their happiness in the future.

    I think that it’s nice to give Georgiana a loving and caring family to be a part of — for her personality, where she seems uncertain of herself, having sensible and caring sisters for guidance and support must be the biggest relief! It seemed like in the original P&P, the Bennet sisters were generally loving of each other, despite their different personalities, so it would have been fun to be part of that family (if you could put up with the occasional chaos).

    1. I enjoyed writing a whole book about Georgiana – developing her story, seeing her come into her own, find love and her place in the world.

      I think I would have had a difficult time putting up with that much chaos, Kathy! Although I agree that in general the Bennet household was a loving one. We don’t ever see open hostility or bitterness between any of them. Jane never thinks ill of anybody. Lizzy has her solace in Jane. Mr. B takes his refuge in his library, and Mary in her music. For Mrs B, Lydia, and Kitty, noisy disorder is their natural state of being!

    • Pam Hunter on January 13, 2016 at 6:19 pm
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    Lovely scene! Thank you, Shannon!

    1. You’re very welcome, Pam!

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